Bhopal Today Team
Bhopal, Feb 7:
Inspite of God's warning Adam tested the forbidden fruit, apple in the Eden garden. From then, the heavenly feeling of love generated and passed on to us.
No need to say much about the heavenly feeling of love, which became inseparable chapter of human life onwards. This feeling caused to blossom new chapters in histories likes Troy, story of Valentine patron saint lover, Romeo and Juliet; on the other hand in the Indian soil Ramayana, Mahabharata, Chandrakanta etc. In every story beloved had used some interesting means of communication to convey their message like pigeon, dove, messenger etc. In the changing of time not only the means of communication but also the way to convey feeling are also changed.
Gestures
In the ancient period, when the language was not properly developed in that period lover used body movements and gestures to convey our message to each other. In the present scenario too, lovebirds convey their message with hand and facial movement standing in the gallery.
Language
The development of language is considered as important chapter in the human history. Language helped lovers to convey their deep and complex feeling to each other. With the help of words and sounds one conveyed his beloved what he or she is feeling about his partner.
Pigeon
In the historical novels and in movie pigeon is considered as symbol of love as it helps to transfer the feeling from one heart to another. In the historical novel Chandrakanta, we found that prince of Naugarh Kunwar Virendra used pigeon as a messenger to send his love message to his beloved Chandrakanta.
Friends
It is one of the best means to sends love message to one's beloved as it saves time, affordable, less fetal, credible and confidential. Make friendship with beloved's friend and some day send message through her, is common formula professed by youth.
Write with blood
To manifest the intensity and depth of love to the beloved such funda it has been professed by the youth. Cut some part of body and dip the edge of pen in blood and write letter to beloved in it. It is also shown in the 90's Bollywood movies.
Letter
Sending message through pigeon or messenger proves costly, common people could not afford it. In the post British era they established postal service at affordable price for the common people across the India. It gave some relief to the lovers to communicate with each other.
Pager
Pager is electronic mobile device used to send encoded message. Actually, before it emerged in to India, it is has been out of fashion. Though its role as a love messenger is not significant yet it became first electronic love messenger.
Phone
Phone brought real revolution in the love making realms. It helped to connect lovers virtually together despite the physical barrier and boundaries. Lovers could able to share their feeling with each other with the help of telephonic device.
Internet
Where the telephone could be not used due to finical, security and confidential reasons in that case Internet played vital role to connect lovers together by the means of email or chatting. Love birds used to sit in the corner of Internet cafe chatting with each other for long hours.
Mobile
Several mobile companies have brought unprecedented revolution in the communication arena and helped middle class lovers to express themselves. They offer brought lovers virtual togetherness for 24X7 hours at affordable price.
Face to face
In spite of advanced technologies and modern devices of communication youths prefer to express love face to face. As the barriers and boundaries of cast class, religion, race, region, colours and ideologies are fast vanishing. Youths are economically independent at the age of twenty so are not under the fear of parents. That is why young generation is bold in love and marriage and express themselves face to face.
What people said
Rahul Saxsena who is working as executive in advertisement company, getting reminiscent in his golden days of his life said seven years back I was in love, then mobile and internet were not affordable so I used to write love letters to my beloved.
Vinay Ramteke, who is working in the call center, said that in spite of modern technology I decided to convey my love face to face. We both were mature then and able to take decision so he chose the medium to meet her face to face. He added that he want to see the facial expression to know whether she really love or not, because he has profound respect to his beloved.
Manuja (name change) said that she decided to express her love face to face with her lover. She added that to meet face to face to take such decision is though provoking, it require tremendous courage. I have prepared my mind for more than eight days.
It is always better to take such kind of decision with consensus of both. So instead of using modem equipments face to face meeting better option so one can see the facial expression and real feeling.